Trust Him Now

Suffering serves a purpose. It is not for us to predict or understand that purpose in the midst of our pain, but to learn to trust, hold fast, and keep our faith in the One who is walking with us.

Yes, that’s right. You are not alone! The Lord is with you, and one day you will be on the mountain top and have the perspective you need to understand why He allowed you to walk through this dark valley. He has a purpose. He is not toying with us. We are not His lab rats. Just trust Him. Trust Him now.

  • Trust Him now, when you don’t understand the how and the why.
  • Trust Him now, when it hurts to face the new day.
  • Trust Him now, when you cannot see the light at the end of the tunnel.
  • Trust Him now, when some mock you for still believing.
  • Trust Him now, when you Doubt tempts you to question His love.
  • Trust Him now, when there is no one reaching out to help.
  • Trust Him now, when the loneliness feel unbearable.
  • Trust Him now, when anxiety threatens at every turn.
  • Trust Him now, when you feel ready to give up.
  • Trust Him now, when Fear is flooding your faith.
  • Trust Him now, when no one understands your pain.
  • Trust Him now, when you feel helpless to fight.
  • Trust Him now, when you can still have a a testimony of faithfulness.

Trust Him now.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding”
Proverbs 3:5 (NKJV)
“Whenever I am afraid, I will trust in You.”
Psalm 56:3 (NKJV)
“But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.” Hebrews 11:6 (NKJV)

10 Very Good Reasons to Shower Her with Flowers

The new Bride observed the beautiful flowers the Saxophone Player brought me at Christmastime. “Tell my husband to buy me flowers, too,” she said. I laughed to myself and thought, You’ve been married for two weeks. Give the guy a chance!

I know women aren’t all alike, but some of us need romance like we need rainy days in bed—and, if that evoked images of cozy sweaters, good books, and hot tea, you are clearly on that team. Those romantic gestures are more than a breath of fresh air for the likes of us—they are the breath of life!

So, for all the new husbands and old, who may think flowers are a luxury to be saved for birthdays and anniversaries, please consider the following list.

10 Very Good Reasons to Shower Her with Flowers 

  1. She needs romance.
    Like air. Seriously.
  2. Empty vases.
    There is nothing as sad as an empty vase, collecting dust.
  3. She wants bragging rights. 
    You know she’ll take a picture and post it. She likes to show you off.
  4. She’s still the one.
    Remind her.
  5. Remind yourself.
    Buying her flowers causes you to stop and think just about her.
  6. It’s a testimony.
    Showing her love shows others something about yourself.
  7. If you don’t, who will? 
    Think about it.
  8. She needs beauty.
    She strives for beauty in your home. Make it a little easier for her.
  9. They’re a great investment. 
    Every time she sees them, it’s like you just gave them to her again
  10. It’s Tuesday.
    Basically, any day of the week works, but Tuesday’s good.

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This was originally published January 11, 2016.

Saturday Evening Post: 4/14/18

Very productive week. Added some things to the big To Do List for the ministry. Doug and I met almost daily to plot our course, and I am excited about what’s ahead. Must just pray, pray, pray. That’s everything, because nothing good can happen without it.

Tonight I finished a document that knocked a few items off that List. Correctional facilities are asking for materials without personal information. Hopefully, this qualifies.

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Isaac sat with me, as I clicked and dragged. He’s a good work companion, but tends to sleep on the job. 😉

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ON ANOTHER NOTE
I found a great children’s song leader on YouTube. Lucy really likes her (the song lady is classic ’90’s, and she’s fantastic). Lucy already has a favorite song, and we listen to over and over. It’s a pretty great song, though. My favorite line: “I’ll never have to say that He loves me not.” Check it out:

Lucy copies the woman’s hand motions (as best she can), but one day she got so excited she ran to get her tambourine.

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SPEAKING OF THE CHILDREN
Until the Lord called us into prison ministry, children’s ministry was always my favorite place to serve in church. It’s a such an honor to share Jesus with a little one.

Interestingly enough, I used to always say (when I was trying to recruit people to help) that serving in or giving to children’s ministry was a investment with a guaranteed return (Proverbs 22:6 says so). During all our years on this prison ministry mission field, I have gathered stories to prove that little slogan. Many men and women will recount how they first heard about Jesus at a neighborhood VBS or in Sunday School—when a neighbor lady would take them, or a church bus would pick them up. For whatever reason, they stopped going, but once they were in jail they began to recall the things they had learned as little ones. Many, many also talk about their grandmother’s prayers, or their grandmother “forcing’ them to go to church. They are always grateful! 

I say it all the time, and I will say forever: the most important ministry in any church is its children’s ministry. If you ever have the chance to do anything to support the children’s ministry in your church, please do it. You won’t regret it.

God bless you all! ❤


Here’s a related post about children’s ministry. Click the title.

Fun with Lucy

We came home from a meeting this week, and I heard a familiar noise up above—

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Our son-in-law was opening our granddaughter’s window. I thought he was putting out her bird feeder, but he was just letting her say, “Hi.”

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She showed me her little, red flower. Before we knew it, she’d decided to drop it!

Well, much to my surprise, she expected me to throw it back up! This is video proof of why I was never a great tennis player. However, my failed attempts made Lucy laugh and laugh, so I kept at it!

Doug showed-up and saved the day.

🙂 ❤

 

 

Saturday Evening Post: 4/7/18

I know.

It’s nowhere NEAR Saturday evening anymore, but in my heart and mind this is still my Saturday Evening Post—my little review of the previous seven days. So, it may go on the record as the latest SEP ever, but I guess I wouldn’t give that prize away, yet.

JUST A THOUGHT
Doug and I were meeting with someone who was sharing a set of circumstances regarding their work that, for this person, were just the law. This was just the way it was, and that’s all there was to it. After several minutes of asking questions, astonished by what this person was describing, we began to wonder out loud about things that could be done to bring change.  They said, “I can see that you two think outside the box.”

I didn’t ask Doug what he thought about this, but I know what I was thinking: What box?

EASTER SUNDAY
We were so happy to share Easter Sunday with the folks at Great Hill. We had a Creole Easter with them, and then came home for our traditional Chicken & Noodles. No pictures of our feast, I’m afraid. Doug did a great job, again. Here is a little video of Lucy and Isaac. She likes her brother, a lot. So far, so good.

 
Isaac, almost a whole month old. It is so much easier to photograph babies who can’t run!
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PRIORITIES ARE MEANT TO BE JUGGLED
It’s shaping up to be a pretty busy Spring and Summer.

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HOW LONG UNTIL CHRISTMAS?
Um…I still haven’t taken these off. I’m wondering if I might just leave them on.

Can you see that little object at the bottom of the picture? It’s one of the last things my mother-in-law gave me. It’s whimsical, and useful! I love it. Can you guess what it is?

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SPRING HAS SPRUNG
Warmer weather is around the corner. More importantly, though, the flowers are coming back! Here is my first pansy.

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I was so excited—and shocked—to find this pansy blooming. In December, I brought them to our enclosed porch, along with my strawberry plants. I had no expectation that anything would survive. I don’t think any pansies in my second pot lived, but this pot is full of life. The strawberries? Well, it remains to be seen how they survived. Hoping to take them all outside soon.

I hope you’ve had a good week, and that your Sunday is blessed with the hope, joy, and peace that can only come from knowing Jesus as Lord. He loves you! ❤

Penny Saver: Red Peppers

Right now, red peppers are $2.99 a pound in the market. That’s kind of ridiculous, yet red peppers are so healthy, add great flavor and color, and taste wonderful.  How can anyone resist them? I will buy the nicest one I can find, and make it stretch for as any meals as possible. (I’ll tell you below how to help a fresh pepper last as long as possible in your refrigerator.)

I also will shop the old produce rack, where the produce manager puts items that are over ripe or damaged. I recently found two bags of red peppers for only 79¢ a pound. Only one pepper had any spoiled spots; the rest  were just a little wrinkled.

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So, I rinsed them all and set them to dry.

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Then, I seeded them and sliced them. I laid them out on a cookie sheet covered with waxed paper, and placed them in the freezer.

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Once they were frozen solid, I layered them between waxed paper in a freezer container. If you don’t have a freezer container, any air-tight container or bag will do. If you use a plastic bag that isn’t for freezing (which means it is thicker plastic), just double bag it.

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Now, my peppers are ready to use. I’ve saved money, and I’ve saved time.

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“She is energetic, a hard worker, 
and watches for bargains.
She works far into the night!”
Proverbs 31:17-18 (TLB)


 

TWO STEPS TO KEEP FRESH PEPPERS FRESH

1. Cut and wash only the portion of the pepper you will use, leaving the stem and seeds intact.
2. Put the remaining pepper in a plastic bag or container, with a sheet of paper towel.

I have kept peppers this way for well over a week. I know nutritional value diminishes as produce ages, but there are always aesthetic and fiber-content benefits.

Saturday Evening Post: 3/31/18

A week of celebrations and traditions.

EASTER EGG HUNT
I remember my very first Easter Egg Hunt. Someone handed me a decorated berry basket with pipe cleaners for a handle. I was told to look for colored eggs. I was kind of confused. Didn’t really want to look for eggs. Wasn’t very good at it, either. Yet, I remember thinking that basket was very cute.

I don’t hide real eggs, just plastic eggs. And, I like to hide a lot of them. At our monthly family dinner, we had an Egg Hunt through the house. There are five grand ones altogether, but Isaac was not up for the hunt. Really, the oldest (6 y/o) found 90% of the eggs, and divided them amongst the others. Lucy found one egg as she entered the house, and that seemed to do the trick for her.

No chocolate in these eggs, because Lucy is still allergic to milk. Instead, I filled tiny zipper bags with the animal crackers, fruit snacks, bunny-shaped cookies, toys, etc. I think I’ll do that every year. The kids had fun with the variety.

We also celebrated Doug’s birthday.

 

SUNSHINE-Y DAY
Today was lovely. Low 50’s. So much sunshine, but there was still some snow for playing. My bulbs are starting to pop-up. Lucy loves being outside, and I’m looking forward to sharing the garden with her. She is getting speedy, though, and I wonder about some kind of portable fencing we might be able to use to make sure she doesn’t run off into the street.


OUR ANNUAL SELFIE

 

BIRTHDAY POPPA
Hannah used to call Doug Pop, so he became Poppa to her children. On his birthday, I caught this moment—the first of many such moments, we hope and pray.

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EVERYDAY IS RESURRECTION DAY
Tomorrow is Easter. We will be holding a service at the Great Hill Shelter, and I’m really looking forward to it.

I trust you have a very blessed day!

Sweet Sixteen

Today (3/29) Lucy is 16-months-old. Sweet, fragile, and exuberant.

One of her new favorite books is this little Bible. It was a gift to Hannah from her Rainbows class at church, when she was three-years-old. It’s full of lovely illustrations, and one day this week I showed her the picture of Jesus embracing a little child.

Lucy has been hearing about Jesus all of her short life, but she seems very curious about Him these days. The story with the particular picture (that she keeps wanting to see) begins, “Jesus loves children.” Before reminding myself it isn’t a politically correct song nowadays, I began singing it to her:

Jesus loves the little children, 
All the children of the world;
Red and yellow, black and white,
They are precious in His sight.
Jesus loves the little children of the world!

Oh, she was very curious about that song! She watched my mouth as I was singing it, and kept wanting to hear it. I don’t know what it was about it, but she liked it right away.

Tonight, I got to spend some time with Lucy just before bedtime. She sat on my lap and wanted to look at her Bible. Somehow, I managed to make this little video. I love capturing moments like this, when life is just happening; when she’s just being her sweet self. There are certain behaviors I know she’ll soon outgrow. Pretty soon, she’ll be able to use all her words and she won’t need help to find a page in a favorite book. This little video will be a sweet evidence of how she has grown.

Sweet Lucy, a sweet 16-months-old. I believe her little heart is tender to the Lord, and I look forward to watching her come to know Him more and more.

 

Divine Interruptions

A friend reminded me of a post from my previous blog. Thought I would share it here, with a few relevant revisions. This was originally published on March 18, 2013.

Divine Interruptions

There is a limit to what anyone can or should do, but sometimes we are so in control of our life (or, so out of control of our life) that we miss something good God wants to give us. We miss a divine interruption that may be just what the Lord has chosen to use to enlarge His presence in our world.

For example: I know a couple who are the parents of five children (including two toddlers), and they were asked to become foster parents to an infant: a brand new baby—sleepless nights and round-the-clock feedings included!

Most people would have looked at their circumstances and understood immediately if they had responded, “No, we’re sorry; our hands are full,” because their hands were full. Their house was full. Their lives were full!

However, their lives were also in order. Their priorities were straight. They knew what God had called them to do, and that was the key. 

That is why they did not turn away from this divine interruption. It is why they did not put their hands up and say, “No, sorry,” sputtering a list of excuses and explanations. Instead, they reached their hands out and prayerfully said, “Yes.” They welcomed this ordained intrusion with full hearts, a warm embrace, and a surrendered will before God. 

Would it be easy? Of course not. Did that matter? Not to them. Difficulty, pain, personal cost—they knew such things could never be reasons for dismissing a divine interruption. They didn’t want to walk outside of God’s will, disobedient to His call. And, they didn’t want to miss the blessing of seeing God provide as He fulfills His purpose for their lives. Despite the circumstances in which they find themselves, they know there is a bigger picture, a picture they cannot see with their natural eyes.

If we are seeking the Lord’s will, asking Him to fulfill His purpose for our life, there will be times when we experience divine interruptions, too. It might be a short-term opportunity, such as drawing water from a well for a thirty stranger; or, it might be a long-term assignment, a call to lay down our life in exchange for a mission field.

Whatever it is, though, it is sure to be an opportunity to welcome God into our lives in a far greater measure than we could ever imagine. That opportunity may not show up at the best of times, and chances are good it won’t be love at first sight. In fact, it might be exactly what we do not want—a dreaded diagnosis, a painful discovery, or an uninvited guest. It might be the last thing we ever thought of doing. Yet, it will bear spiritual fruit in our life. That is the confirmation of anything that comes from God. We are supernaturally changed by the experience, becoming a clearer reflection of our Savior for others to see.

So, we must be alert. A divine interruption won’t introduce itself as a gift, an opportunity from God. It will intrude, disrupt, and complicate life. It might feel like a setback, and the temptation to turn it away is natural. Yet, when we are walking closely to the Lord in faith, listening for the Holy Spirit’s leading, we won’t be walking in the natural. We will hear that still small voice telling us, “Trust Me in this.” We will know in our spirit man that the Lord will be with us. We’ll know He’s going to make up the difference. 

Oh, let’s pray we don’t miss a divine interruption! Let’s be willing to cast down our plans, our pride, and our doubts. Let’s be willing to cast down our selves, if we’re getting in the way. Let’s be people so mindful of His will for us, that we don’t miss His presence in the midst of our circumstances. 

God bless you today. 

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Saturday Evening Post: 3/24/18

Today I am learning a hard lesson.

I hate learning hard lessons. They take a lot of time. And, they hurt.

However, I’ve learned one thing about hard lessons: there is no escaping them. You just prolong the misery, the longer you avoid the class.

So, I am trying very sincerely today to learn this lesson.

And, I think that will end my Saturday evening post.

It’s been a very long day.

God bless you. ❤